DOUAI ABBEY

Pastoral Programme


RESIDENTIAL RETREATS

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one can take
a prayerful
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2012

Quo vadis? (Whither goest thou?) Individually Guided Retreat

led by Christopher Greener OSB & Gervase Holdaway OSB

Monday February 13, 12.30pm - Friday Febrary 17, 9.30am

A silent individually guided retreat. Relax in God's presence surrounded by natural beauty and supported by the community prayer. Retreatants will have the opportunity for daily one-to-one sessions with one of the leaders.

The retreat will be lead by Brother Christopher who is guestmaster at Douai Abbey and has an MA in Ethics from Louvain and an MA in Christian Spirituality from Heythrop College, London. Gervase Holdaway has an MA in Theology from the Univeristy of Louvain, Belgium, and is Oblate Director, and Pastoral Programme Director at Douai Abbey.

Event 2112. Residential cost £200, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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PANCAKES & ASHES

A retreat for Carnival & Lent

led by Christopher Greener OSB & Gervase Holdaway OSB

Monday February 20, 5.30pm - Friday February 24, 9.30am.

A retreat including Carnival (Shrove Tuesday) and Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent, during which we shall feast and fast, as we begin our preparation for the great celebration of the Paschal Mystery at Easter. The retreat will consist of meditations in which participants are expected to contribute; talks on the liturgy and historical background; and also the availability for spiritual direction for those who wish.

Gervase Holdaway OSB is Oblate Director and editor of Oblate Life (2009). Christopher Greener OSB is Guestmaster and recently obtained an MA Christian Spirituality at Heythrop, where he compared and contrasted the Jesuit and Benedictine approaches to spiritual direction.

Event 4012. Cost for the waged £200, £30 reduction for those willing to share a room, reductions for those on low income, deposit of £30 please.

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SILENT RETREAT

Monday March 5, 5.30pm - Friday March 9, 9.30am

A chance to spend a few days in silent prayer and meditation. Retreatants will be welcome to take part in the monastic offices, as well as being able to spend time walking in the Berkshire countryside.

Event 2212. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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EASTER TRIDUUM RETREAT

Thursday April 5, 5pm - Sunday April 8, 3pm

led by Romuald Simpson OSB

The Triduum is the climax of the church's liturgical cycle. Come and celebrate with the monastic community and have time for silent prayer and reflection. There will be talks on the spirituality and significance of the celebrations.

Event 4112. Residential Cost £175 reductions for those on low income; deposit of £30 please.

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LECTIO DIVINA RETREAT

led by Gervase Holdaway OSB

Friday May 4, 5.30pm - Monday May 7, 2.30pm

Experience a way of praying with Scripture, an ancient art at one time practiced by all Christians. It is a slow contemplative prayer which enables one to listen to God's word and to make prayerful response. There will be time for sharing, silence, solitude and reflection.

Event 2312, includes the bank holiday. Residential cost £175, reductions for those on low income, deposit of £30 please.

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PENTECOST RETREAT

led by Stefan Reynolds

Friday May 25, 5.30pm - Sunday May 27, 2.30pm.

Event 4212. Cost £125, reductions for those on low income,; deposit of £30 please.

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COME TO THE QUIET

led by Elizabeth Rees OCV & Benedct Thompson OSB

Monday June 11, 5.30pm - Friday June 15, 2.30pm.

A silent individually guided retreat. Relax in God's presence surrounded by natural beauty and supported by the community prayer.

Event 2412. Residential cost £200, reductions for those on low income, premium for single en-suite room in the guesthouse £20; deposit of £30 please.

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RETREAT: FORGIVENESS

led by Fodhla McGrane PhD & Nicholas Broadbridge OSB

Friday Sunday June 15, 5.30pm - Sunday June 17 2.30pm

What is forgivness? Why forgive? How does it work? It is often hard to do. But what if ...? 'To err is human, to forgive divine.' Forgiveness is mysterious, challenging, and liberating. 'Forgive' is a command given regularly by Jesus; it is not optional if we want to live in him. This weekend is designed to give ou the opportunity to learn about and develop your understanding of forgiveness as in the Gospels, dispel myths, share experiences, challenge our thinking, pray for healing aand forgiveness (there will be optional one-to-one sessions with Fr Nicholas); and by the grace of God, put forgiveness into practice. The option of the Sacrament of Reconciliation will also be provided. Limited to 10 participants.

Fodhla works as a teacher and trainer in interpersonal communication skills, she is an oblate of St Benedict (a lay person who follows the Rule of St Benedict in daily life).

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SILENT RETREAT

Monday July 16, 5.30pm - Friday July 20, 9.30am

A chance to spend a few days in silent prayer and meditation. Retreatants will be welcome to take part in the monastic offices, as well as being able to spend time walking in the Berkshire countryside.

Event 2512. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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TRANSITIONS in LIFE and WORK

Sadhana Retreat

led by Bernard Kilroy & Pamela Lee

Friday July 27, 5.30pm - Sunday July 29, 2.30pm.

  • Redundant ?
  • New Job ?
  • Retiring ?
  • Promotion ?
  • Marriage ?
  • Bereavement ?
  • Illness ?

For 12 years this retreat has had very positive feedback. It is unusual by combining reflective spirituality with art forms in which you can engage without intrusive demands. You have the support of taking part in a small group yet retain quietness and privacy. No special talents or faith required.
Options: attendance at monastic office; one-to-one spiritual direction; reflexology.
Limited to 18 people.

Further details, or chat without obligation: bernardkilroy@uk2,net tel/fax 01252 843133

Pamela Lee, during a varied and enjoyable career as an Officer in the Women’s Royal Army Corps and in the Foreign Office, lived in the Far and Middle East. She then married and had two sons and worked as a teacher in Adult Education. She help to found the National Eczema Society in Sussex and to develop an HIV/AIDS Drop-in Centre in Brighton. Pam has been a Franciscan Tertiary novice and has trained in Ignatian Spirituality, Spiritual Direction and New Testament Greek. She is also a Christian meditator. She works as a spiritual companion in Weeks of Guided Prayer and gives retreats and quiet days. Pam has made many painful transitions in her life after her own illnesses and close bereavements, particularly of her son in his 30s following a brain tumour, and her Husband in August 2008 after suffering Alzheimer’s disease. Yoga, friends, the internet and her grandchildren, alongside her spiritual accompaniment keep her in the present.

Bernard Kilroy, following a career in community work and social housing in politicised inner London and with Shelter, and later as a tutor in MBA management development, is revisiting as a facilitator an old dream of ministry. He and his wife, Janine, have one con, now 30, after two miscarriages which had the effect of consolidating their marriage. Bernard spends two months a year in an Indian ashram researching Indian Christian Spirituality for a doctorate, leads village tours in India and organises Cre-Asian Movement in UK schools with Kàlai Kàviri dancers from S India. He uses his training in counselling and spiritual direction to help others (and himself sometimes!) to realise their own true vocation, especially through making the most of their work and life relationships. He is qualified in both massage and reflexology. He feel that the bosy’s ‘pairing’ sustems (eg. Biceps and triceps in tandem oppositions) offer a model for living with change: the challenge of moving on, balanced by the need for healing and support.

Event X112. Course fee £80, cheque payable to Bernard Kilroy. Residential cost £90 payable to Douai Abbey, reductions for those on low income, £20 reduction for those sharing a room. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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TO GOD THROUGH MUSIC

led by Gervase Holdaway OSB

Friday September 21, 5.30pm - Sunday September 23, 2.30pm.

For many people music creates the atmosphere conducive to prayer. This retreat will give opportunity to grow closer to God through music. No expertise is needed, just an ability to listen.

Event 4412. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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Quo vadis? (Whither goest thou?) Individually Guided Retreat

led by Christopher Greener OSB & Gervase Holdaway OSB

Monday September 24, 12.30pm - Friday September 28, 9.30am

A silent individually guided retreat. Relax in God's presence surrounded by natural beauty and supported by the community prayer. Retreatants will have the opportunity for daily one-to-one sessions with one of the leaders.

The retreat will be lead by Brother Christopher who is guestmaster at Douai Abbey and has an MA in Ethics from Louvain and an MA in Christian Spirituality from Heythrop College, London. Gervase Holdaway has an MA in Theology from the Univeristy of Louvain, Belgium, and is Oblate Director, and Pastoral Programme Director at Douai Abbey.

Event 2612. Residential cost £200, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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BENEDICTINE RETREAT

led by Alban Hood OSB

Friday September 28, 5.30pm - Sunday September 30, 2.15pm.

Bendictine spirtuality for beginners or for those taking an interested look at a slightly different and slower way of life. We shall consider the Rule of St Benedict. No previous knowledge will be required. Retreatants will share in the prayer life of the monastery, and have opportunity for individual spiritual direction.

Event 4512. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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LECTIO DIVINA RETREAT

led by Gervase Holdaway OSB

Monday October 1, 5.30pm - Friday October 5, 9.30am

Experience a way of praying with Scripture, an ancient art at one time practiced by all Christians. It is a slow contemplative prayer which enables one to listen to God's word and to make prayerful response. There will be time for sharing, silence, solitude and reflection.

Event 2712, Residential cost £200, reductions for those on low income, deposit of £30 please.

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THOMAS MERTON RETREAT

led by Michael Woodward

Friday October 5, 5.30pm - Sunday October 7 2.30pm

We will reflect upon Thomas Merton's life, work and wonderful creativity in a prayerful monastic context and we will look at his continuing influence. Previous experience of Merton is welcome but not essential.

Michael Woodward has previously edited the Merton Journal. He is a widely published poet and writer, and an experienced retreat leader. In 2003 he was elected first Leader of the Lay community of St Benedict. He lives in South Wales nad has four children.

Event 4612. Residential cost £120, £20 reduction for those willing to share a room, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30.

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SILENT RETREAT

Monday October 8, 5.30pm - Friday October 12, 9.30am

A chance to spend a few days in silent prayer and meditation. Retreatants will be welcome to take part in the monastic offices, as well as being able to spend time walking in the Berkshire countryside.

Event 2812. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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RETREAT FOR MOTHERS

led by Veronica Williams & Carolyn Hart

Friday October 19, 5.30pm - Sunday October 21 2.30pm

During this weekend, we will have an opportunity to hear about the way that the Holy Spirit has inspired mothers in over a hundred countries, from different nationalities and cultures to join together in small groups to pray in a united way for their children, learning how to surrender their children to the Lord.

During the fifteen years of Mothers Prayers. there have been a great many wonderful answers to prayers. We have found that in coming together and acknowledging that we have a mighty God who can, and does change things, our families are restored and refeshed.

Veronica founded 'Mothers Prayers in 1995, and has organised the movement since then. She has given retreats and spoken about the movement in several countries.

Stop your crying
and wipe away your tears.
all that you have done for your children
will not go unrewarded;
they will return from the enemy's land.
There is hope for your future;
your children will come back home.
I, the Lord, have spoken.
Jeremiah 31:16-17

Event 4712. Residential cost £120, £20 reduction for those willing to share a room, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30.

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PRAYING THE PSALMS

led by Gervase Holdaway OSB

Friday November 2, 5.30pm - Sunday November 4, 2.30pm.

An opportunity to discover the psalms, which have been the prayer of Jews and Christians alike and were prayed by Jesus. We will experience singing the psalms in the monastic offices, and will see how they can be our prayer too. We shall also see how they are musical expressions of faith.

Event 4812. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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COME LORD JESUS! A RETREAT FOR ADVENT

led by Alban Hood OSB

Friday November 30, 5.30pm - Sunday December 2, 2.30pm.

The Church invites us to reflect on the wonder of a people waiting for Messiah. The marvellous gift of Christmas, God-become-flesh, demands a prayerful heart awaiting the coming of the Lord. This retreat will help you prepare to receive God's gift of his own Son.

Event 4912. Residential cost £120, £20 reduction for those willing to share a room, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30.

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SILENT RETREAT

Monday December 3, 5.30pm - Friday December 7, 9.30am

A chance to spend a few days in silent prayer and meditation. Retreatants will be welcome to take part in the monastic offices, as well as being able to spend time walking in the Berkshire countryside.

Event 2912. Residential cost £120, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30 to Douai Abbey.

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PRE-CHRISTMAS RETREAT

led by Oliver Holt OSB OSB

Friday December 21 5.30pm - Sunday December 23 , 2.30pm.

The Church invites us to reflect on the wonder of a people waiting for Messiah. The marvellous gift of Christmas, God-become-flesh, demands a prayerful heart awaiting the coming of the Lord. This retreat will help you prepare to receive God's gift of his own Son.

Event 41112. Residential cost £120, £20 reduction for those willing to share a room, reductions for those on low income. To book please send non-returnable deposit of £30.

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Accommodation is in the Guest House (en-suite or semi-en-suite). Since the Guest House is not only a service but also a source of our livelihood, we appreciate a donation that will cover our operational costs and contribute to our income. We are grateful to those who can give more and welcome those whose means allow for less. Please do not let the cost prevent you from coming. Included within the rate is accommodation, breakfast, lunch, and supper. As many of the rooms in the Guest House are twin or double, we are offering a reduction to those willing to share.

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